Posted by: lyricalpurpose on: February 11, 2010
If you have ever uttered this phrase or found yourself whining along those lines, it is deeply understandable. There are a lot of messages that we give ourselves and pick up around us that invalidate the study of music, poetry, dance, language, history, comparative literature, and the whole spectrum of liberal and fine arts majors.
So, start by reading yet another amazingly helpful and concise posting by Kathy Hansen at QuintCareers.com. If you aren’t already a fan of QuintCareers, let me introduce you. I’ve followed them since 1998 when I was on the job market after grad school in English and found the content refreshing, direct, and useful. Really, truly everything career from “I’m in high school and thinking about….” to “I’m a senior executive” to everything in between and beyond. Start there and it’ll lead your job search journey along to many great resources, ideas, and practices.
Go now… read what she has to say about the amazing value of owning your degree. It’s SO important in finding a job and, really in all of life… If YOU can’t convince yourself of being likable, valuable, hirable… Well, it’s going to be really tough sell to others.
If it’s helpful, learning to like yourself and value what is special about you IS something you can learn. Undeniably, it *really* helps to have great nurturing parents who’ve told you repeatedly how amazing, gifted, talented, and full of potential you are while setting clear supportive boundaries in developmentally appropriate ways. But…..given that didn’t happen for most of us and even those that it did… well, trust me. Not even the coolest parents are perfect. We all have issues.
And that’s where I really want to add something to Kathy’s great list of ways to value–and, realize the value of liberal or fine arts degrees--and, it honestly might be much clearer to the fine arts majors than it is to those of us in the humanities, but PEOPLE are the most central and effective resource on a job search. Liberal arts includes the humanities after all!
You might have heard people say, often with a snicker… that “it’s not WHAT you know, it’s WHO you know?”
Well, I’d argue it’s really, equally and crucially, both.
Who you know is only part of the recipe of success. If you ONLY know people and you are a complete idiot (and we all could possibly point to someone like this in our history?), you can rise quite far. That’s true. But you are still a complete idiot and at some point the emperor has no clothes and falls in disgrace.
What you know is only part of the recipe of success. If you ONLY know facts and figures, information without social context and human connection is of limited use. You can be very smart, but you need other humans to be able to put that information to work.
Connecting who and what through learning is optimal networking. Intentionally setting out to learn from those around you through Informational Interviewing and less formal conversations too about what others are doing, how they got there, where they got started, when they learned some of their biggest lessons, and especially who else they would suggest you speak with in your mission.
Building community is crucial. I’m not talking about fake networking of the worst most cheesy bad car salesman type. I’m talking about being human. Connect with other humans around what you want to learn about the world. More on this in the future…
Sending fabulous energy as you connect with people around passionate ideas!
Posted by: lyricalpurpose on: January 19, 2010
If you are thinking about going to graduate school, you may have wondered about staying at your undergrad school for grad school. It’s a deeply understandable idea, especially if you really like the subject, the school, and already have a place to live and lots of friends. Yet, it’s often a very good idea to broaden your horizons.
Depending on your program and field there may be certain conventions specific to your field, so a great place to start is with talking with the faculty and graduate students in your program. Certain programs strongly discourage or even flat out refuse to accept undergrads from their own program. Other programs strongly encourage their applicants from their own undergrad program. So, what gives? How do you make sense of this?
Well, it might be helpful to first outline some of the key elements of a graduate program:
1) Graduate school is professional training that provides focus and direction for your career.
2) Graduate school provides grounding in key philosophies and practices within a field.
3) Graduate school provides a network at the school and access to professional networking through faculty, conferences, symposium, research, practicums, internships, residencies, and other experience designed to connect you with those in the field.
So, with these 3 key elements in mind, consider the following: no matter how wonderful your undergraduate program is, attending a different program for graduate schools gives you the opportunity to broaden your exposure to training in your field, acquaints you with more philosophies or approaches in your discipline, and of course widens the number of people in your network. Perhaps that helps explain why some programs make policies that encourage you to look elsewhere for graduate school?
Yet, in certain cases staying at the same school might be the convention in your discipline. For example, because K-12 licensure or certification is state-by-state, the convention has been to stay local when going to graduate school for education. There may even be curricular and other encouragement to start undergrad in some kind of pre-education program that provides early or guaranteed entrance to graduate school. That makes a great deal of sense given the way education is currently governed.
Yet, for most fields, you are likely to find it’s more the norm to look for programs across the country that are a good fit for the exact training, experience, and networking you desire. This is particularly true if you are a competitive candidate for a number of program. Often people regard their home school as a “safety net” program. This is because a place where you are already known, liked, and succeeding isn’t regarded as stretching to the next level of what you can handle. Making connections from where you are to where you’d be a great candidate is a lot more challenging and presents an opportunity for you really learn, grow, and integrate yourself into the field.
One element that many people find very surprising is that when looking at graduate programs that they are NOT limited to programs that are an exact match to their undergraduate studies. Here are a couple of examples:
There are literally hundreds of examples I could give you of students who studied one thing as an undergraduate and successfully went on to graduate or professional school in another area. So, how could that be?
Well, for some programs like medical school or related health professions, you need specific classes and experiences to get accepted. Some students have these classes and most find they may need a few additional classes to meet these application prerequisites. At the same time, what surprises many is that they didn’t need a specific degree in chemistry or biology to go to medical school. They needed a core set of science classes, and very importantly, a compelling story of good fit for the medical program.
Yet in other cases, a minor or a core set of classes that may have been part of the general education curriculum may be sufficient academic preparation for entry into a graduate program. You will need to research specific programs to see what courses, experience, scores, recommendations, or other evidence they require to evaluate your application. For many students they are able to plan these courses into their general education. For other students, it may require additional studies prior to graduate application.
The key is to broaden your horizon as early on as possible: look beyond your current school or even your current major to find the best graduate program for you. Knowing what you want from a program is a good start. Then, researching what is out there. It’s a process. Start from where you are. There are many resources to assist you on your path. Use them all.
Sending fabulous energy!
Posted by: lyricalpurpose on: January 16, 2010
Not sure if you should stay in school and plan for graduate school or graduate into a weak job market?
It’s admittedly an understandable strategy. School is what you know. Sure, you might be tired of it, but often people find that what is known and unpleasant is preferred to that which is unknown and therefore scary.
At the same time, graduate school is a major investment in specializing within a discipline or field and typically provides very specific training and research opportunities. Grad school is best engaged in consciously, deliberately chosen and part of a genuine career plan…it’s really not a place to hide out or avoid the question of what you are truly going to do in life.
There are really many paths to graduate school and that’s really important to remember. It is NOT crucial to go directly to graduate school after college. In fact, depending on the program, taking time between college and graduate school to work, travel, volunteer, and gain experience in life, ranges from improving acceptance rates to actually being required.
There are basically 2 schools of thought on this issue:
So what might you do? Well, start with thinking about the following:
So, if you aren’t sure about whether or not you want to go to graduate school, that’s wonderful. It’s good to ask questions. To not question your decisions at all isn’t good planning. It’s bullheaded and likely to lead to ill-conceived plans of all sorts. Questioning leads to better answers. Better answers leads to better decisions.
If it’s helpful, I question my career decisions all the time. It’s when I can’t find answers that I know I need to do more research. The issue isn’t questioning, it’s not questioning when it comes to great research. And great research is really what graduate programs are about. So, start asking great questions of yourself and those that can help illuminate the way. Enjoy the process…
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Posted by: lyricalpurpose on: January 25, 2010
If you’ve been reading along in my series on going to graduate school, you might at some point in the process get overwhelmed. That’s totally normal.
If it’s helpful, I get overwhelmed as much as the next person. Thinking about life… career options… relationships… from the big picture to the smallest pixel… there are moments when it can all become too much.
From questioning where one might to live, work, study, or raise a family? to considering what others might think? how it might work? or even what might happen if…? Sometimes, it can be good to pause, take a minute to breathe, and consider the larger purpose of why we are heading off to do something.
Just like anyone, I can get caught up in exploring the enormity of options, unknown variables, quantity of elements to coordinate, etc…that it’s just a seemingly never-ending pointless laundry list of tasks and duties and responsibilities…and it’s at that moment, especially if I find myself discouraged, frustrated, or wanting to just quit, one of the most powerful things I’ve found I can do for myself and others is to ask “What’s the Point?”
Try it. Take a deeeeeeep to-the-belly-kind-of-breathe…hold in and sloooowwwwwlyyy–as slowly as you possibly can– but evenly…let your breath out. Gather your focus in doing so. Slow your heart rate by slowly breathing in and out. Ask yourself: “What’s the Point?”
When I’m asking “What’s the Point?” it’s not typically in a despairingly dramatic “ohhhhhh woe is me….what is the point of living…” while swooning, gnashing my teeth, and falling on my heroic but trite sword of death, while whining that “it’s not faaaairrrr.” Not typically. but you know everyone has their moments.
More helpful in asking “What’s the Point”, I’ve found, is that it calls for a focus on purpose or mission. In Breaking the Rules, A Visionary’s Guide to Effortless High Performance, Kurt Wright examines the difference between a goal and a purpose. For example, going to graduate school or getting a job is a goal. It is a specific (albeit large) task that can be accomplished. Goals are great. But, a goal without a reason is hollow, demotivating, and unlikely to be successful.
Consider any time someone orders you to do something. It really typically doesn’t matter who it is doing the ordering: it could be your mom, your boss, your significant other or roommate; it could even be yourself, but almost every time, our natural response is “Why?” Often that “why” question is a way to resist…or contest power…but that’s deeply understandable. Anytime we commit our time, energy, and resources to a task, it it is more helpful to know why we are doing so, than to simply march forward with a 1000-yard stare into meaningless action.
So, in someways whenever we get overwhelmed, frustrated, or otherwise feeling grumpy about something, it can be useful to take a moment to consider that core “Why” questions because the answer is central to providing a motivating reason to each goal. Providing context and purpose is key to swift action and to meaningful results.
“What is the Point?” is another way of asking “Why?’ and gets at the central motivating reason or purpose of the goal. Knowing the purpose of a goal is much more likely to move me into action. Simply telling myself “I have to do this or that” makes me actually resist or procrastinate action. When, we know why we are doing something, we have the power of choice.
Yet, if it’s helpful for me to share, sometimes that all important “why?” question can simply be too confrontational, too personal, too combative, or too philosophical to be helpful in asking ourselves and others. It’s a crucially important question to ask, but because it’s the most core question,it can be too much for us to address, especially at stressful moments in life.
For example, even people close to us…even when we mean no confrontation…even when we ask a simple curious “so, why’d you park out front, honey?”…and it’s not a deep philosophical issue that requires soul searching…people can snap at you when you ask “why?”
So, here are ways to ask “why” in more effective frames:
Ask yourself these questions at any point along the way. Asking and answering these can keep you going, as well as keep you focused and motivated.
It can also be a great tool in crisis.
Asking great questions, creating mission statements, or reciting inspiring quotations and the like are a powerful tools in controlling our thoughts, beliefs, motivations, actions, and are a few of the key elements of transforming our lives on our terms.
Sending fabulous energy!
Posted by: lyricalpurpose on: January 23, 2010
When looking for specific graduate programs, students frequently ask me about college rankings.
Of course, you can turn to resources like US News & World Report College Rankings if you just want some ideas of programs that might be worth looking at. However, much has been written about the issues with these rankings. I’ll sum it up this way:
So, how can you do good research into programs? Well, start by reading my previous posts on graduate schools. Then, a next great step is to regularly read The Chronicle. You can see trends in programs. You can look at the facts and figures available regarding salary and opportunities. And, you can ask questions in the forum.
There are many such resources along the way. Use them all. It’s a process and great research on the path to well-thought out decisions doesn’t happen over night. Research and uncertainty are just part of the gig and are deeply understandable. Anyone considering graduate school at moments gets overwhelmed, frustrated, and annoyed. So, one thing you can do for yourself is to connect with others who are in the same place. Sharing resources and experiences can be very helpful . It provides support and a good catalyst for making progress.
Sending fabulous energy!
Posted by: lyricalpurpose on: January 22, 2010
So, if you are just getting started in thinking about graduate school, it’s still a great time to start looking for specific programs. Consider when you started looking for colleges when you were in high school? What year was that? When did your PARENTS start thinking about it? Well, that’s about when you might start thinking about graduate school in comparison.
Even if you are fully in-swing with the graduate school application process, read on. It’s likely there are things you might still be able to do or questions to consider that make this process really pay off.
So much of the search for the right graduate program starts with knowing yourself. The process of getting to know more of what you want is always on-going as the further you get into researching programs the more refined your questions will become and more details will surface. Here’s some starter ways you might find and research great programs:
1. start with taking a look at favorite articles and books you have read in class, in the library, or online that are related to the discipline you wish to study in graduate school.
2. go the library, ideally a large university or city library with lots of resources and look for professional journals that appeal to you. if you are enrolled, you likely have access to many of these articles in online databases and can search by key words, authors, and phrases.
3. start with your current or alum university graduate students in similar or related programs.